Dear girls, women planning a pregnancy, or maybe already carrying the "fruit of love", if you look at this kind of article, you probably already have an opinion about childbirth, moreover, in a negative direction, but somewhere inside, the original woman sitting in you whispers: "Everything is completely wrong."
In this article you will not find the next medical explanation of the physiology of childbirth. It has only my personal experience. Perhaps the material provided will help you decide whether it is painful to give birth.
First birth. Is it painful to give birth when you are not ready for anything, just like a child?
I am 19 years old. I live with my husband a lieutenant, my parents are far away. I want a child, because it seems to me that his appearance is a manifestation of my love. All day long I’m bored, but not scared. I don’t think about childbirth at all. My 38 weeks pregnancy, something suddenly began to leak. All night I wait for “strong periodic pains” called contractions, nothing. In the maternity hospital, I look with interest at the women with skewed faces, smiling (high spirits, because soon I will get a baby), nothing hurts. Doctors scolded me for a long time, then decide to stimulate the birth. They put me a dropper.
Does it hurt to give birth? I answer: “Yes, yes!”
Pain, pain ... a red fog envelops the brain, emerged from the fiery hyena, opened her eyes, looked at her watch, "How much more should I suffer" - a thought flashed through, and again the pain. They pierced the bubble. Attempts began. They say: "Wait." How can i wait Nerves passed. I gave birth, in each hand a dropper, I don’t even hear him crying, I only hear that he is a boy. They put a mask on their nose, fall into sleep.
Eight hours after giving birth, they bring a baby, small, thin, like a sparrow.
The second birth. Is it painful to have a baby scientifically?
I am 23 years old. I study at the institute. I love the eldest son with a possessive love, but he already wants to be independent. We still do without grandmothers. I read a lot of literature, learned how and what to do when to breathe, when not to breathe.
The term of birth in the first days of January was not completely satisfied (New Year's same). When more or less violent fights began (December 13), she went to the hospital. After several hours, the precursors of childbirth ceased. They put it for preservation, and at my place my husband and a small child. I escaped from the hospital, washed my little son and went to give birth. She told the doctors that I would not leave the maternity ward until I gave birth! They pierced the amniotic fluid. All the time that the birth took place, and gave birth to half a day, she actively followed the recommendations of doctors and book authors. Yes it was painful, but not so - it was a marathon, running with hurdles. I felt like a warrior going to victory. I was exhausted so that I did not know how much power was enough to push the baby out. During the fights it turned out that the child was walking with his feet. They told me to listen to what the doctor was saying and to do it clearly, otherwise the son might suffocate. And so she gave birth: clearly following the instructions. After giving birth, there was one emotion - fatigue, and it was still cold.
They washed Yefimka, wrapped it up, put it next to it. He was walking.
Third birth. Pain during childbirth, does it exist?
I am 29 years old, happily married. The child is very welcome. Two months before giving birth, she came to her mother, along with her beloved children, to give birth calmly and to be sure that everything would be fine with the boys under any circumstances. Resting, life is beautiful! A month before birth , painful contractions began and took place in periods. I gave birth almost exactly on time. For a day at night, while asleep, a mucous plug came out . I got to the antenatal department. All day I walked on the street, went about my business. There were some sensations, but they did not prevent me from feeling great. In the evening, for several fairly strong contractions, the amniotic fluid burst itself. I went to the maternity ward with a hard thought that now I’ll have to suffer. It turned out the opening of the cervix is already complete. To say that I was surprised was to say nothing, I was happy. Two hours later, a wonderful baby was lying on my chest. It was raining, the doctors fussed about something there (the last one didn’t go out), and I felt a feeling of euphoria, bliss that I had never before or after.
In conclusion, I want to say that many girls do not want to have children at all, referring to the notorious birth pain. I had two frozen pregnancies before the third birth, scraped - this is equivalent to an abortion. So, answering the question “is it painful to give birth?”, I will say that no pain during childbirth can be compared with the one when you lose a baby.