It’s not always possible to live with one man all his life and maintain a warm relationship. Divorce between spouses does not mean the end of all relations. Communication after the divorce process is a whole art. If the husband and wife managed to pass through this test with dignity, they continue to congratulate each other on the holidays, consult on many issues and simply do not forget all the good things that were in their life together. How to come up with a good birthday wish to your ex-husband?
Warm words for ex-husband
How to write a congratulation text and what words to choose on this holiday. No matter what the birthday wishes to the ex- husband from the ex-wife will be - in prose or in poetry, it is important that they are spoken from the heart. It is unlikely that in your life there were no joyful and pleasant moments. Choosing the necessary words, it is worth remembering them and expressing gratitude in your congratulation.
- "You will spend this birthday without me, but I wish you love and mutual understanding with your new chosen one. Let only bright and positive memories of our life together remain in your memory."
- "We are not celebrating this holiday together, but remember, I am grateful to you for the days spent together."
You can pick up words that did not speak to your ex-husband before. Happy birthday, you can congratulate by phone or arrange a beautiful card and send it by mail.
Joking greetings
Texts for congratulations may not be so serious, you can add funny and witty phrases to them. Congratulating your ex-husband, you can insert some playful reproaches and jokes into the text. This form of greeting will help relieve the tension that sometimes arises between ex-spouses.
- "Although our life was not easy, but I wish that in your new family life you would receive a lot of positive from your new wife. Although it is unlikely that she will be able to compare with me."
- “Today you’ve become a whole year older and, perhaps, you have already learned to take care not only of yourself. Let your new chosen one feel your care and love, which I haven’t received.”
Such happy birthday greetings to your ex-husband are funny and funny, they will show him that you are doing well and that you are not depressed because of a divorce.
Short or long
How much you select the right words and what words they will be, depends not least on how you broke up. If the breakup went without scandals and mutual reproaches and you can still communicate without recalling each other’s mistakes, you can make a long birthday wish to your ex-husband.
- "My ex-husband! On this day, I want to wish you not to forget the pleasant moments of our family life. After all, only after we broke the thread that connected us did we really appreciate what we had."
The words spoken or written to the ex-husband happy birthday, it is better to choose in advance so that at the last moment they do not fly out of my head from excitement.
- "You were the most precious person on earth for me, and let us go our separate ways today, I wish you not to stumble and not to stumble. May your path be easy and enjoyable, and on it you will meet the one you want to go along with."
What exactly to say and what to wish should prompt the heart. Any congratulations should be positive - no need to tidy up the past and remember the negative aspects of your life.
But should I even congratulate my ex-husband?
You can solve this question only individually, but if you had children in your marriage, then your ex-husband remains your beloved dad for them. Former fathers do not exist - you must build your relationship after the divorce so that the children can communicate with their father.
The text of the congratulation may include poetic quatrains, it would be nice to read them in turn with the children. But if you can’t put your wishes into rhyming lines, it’s better to say few words, but your own, than to read a poem, but someone else's.
- "I do not know how to speak beautifully, but let all my wishes come true in your life. Happiness to you, my ex-husband."
If after a divorce you practically do not communicate and your views on life and parenting are too different, then you can limit yourself to a greeting card on which you will write a few words of congratulations. You can also congratulate with a short SMS message if it is very painful to hear the voice of an ex-husband.
Congratulations on your birthday to your ex-husband are funny, short, serious, long - they should express your attitude and feelings towards the most dear person once.