Paradoxically, the need to congratulate a spouse often confuses women. Despite the fact that no one knows better than a wife about the interests, preferences and tastes of a man, spouses, as a rule, pronounce template greeting phrases and give banal gifts, of course, without forgetting to cook a lot of the usual holiday food or order a banquet with a set of traditional snacks, when it comes to the need to celebrate the anniversary.
Meanwhile, it is the wives who possess all the capabilities necessary to turn an ordinary birthday into a real holiday, which will not only please and surprise, but also remain in memory for a long time.
What spoils congratulations?
How to originally congratulate her husband on his anniversary? The main thing is the ability to change the usual celebration options. Of course, avoiding templates does not mean the need to completely abandon everything that is traditionally liked by the spouse. You should not replace the holiday gatherings at the table with a camping trip, of course, if the husband is not a fan of this way of spending leisure time.
The first thing to do is to change the stereotypes of the celebration, the series of events on the day of the anniversary. For example, congratulations. As a rule, wives say something like "Happy holiday, dear!" at breakfast and present a present. Or they don’t hand it, but they are waiting for the evening celebration.
Meanwhile, congratulating her husband on his anniversary is quite possible after midnight, as soon as the day according to the calendar has arrived. A passionate night full of romance is quite appropriate and will delight a man. Of course, if we are talking about an elderly hero of the day, then this is not necessary.
For any age, a not quite ordinary awakening is suitable. In the event that a person has a sound sleep - during his rest you need to decorate the room. Any attributes are suitable - balls, garlands, flowers. Of course, it would be better if the theme of jewelry not only corresponds to the anniversary, but also reflects the tastes of the birthday man.
The wife should not forget that congratulations are not only words and a gift, but also design, surroundings and even her own appearance. It is unlikely that a person will have a festive mood if he is handed regular socks, toilet water or a bath set for a yawning woman in a casual tracksuit or bathrobe. And this moment does not depend on age at all, you can get away from the template idea that you need to dress up for the celebration, regardless of age.
How to get away from templates?
In principle, everyone has their own templates. Therefore, thinking about how to congratulate her husband on his anniversary, it makes sense to take a sheet of paper and write down what comes to mind. If you do not dissemble with yourself, then a list will come out, which includes cutting salads, baking meat, table setting and much more. That is, the main pattern characteristic of most wives is the emphasis on practicality and life, and not on the personality of the birthday person.
After everything that is usually done on a holiday is recorded, the list needs to be adjusted. If the celebration is at home, then you should not spend a lot of time preparing snacks, they can be purchased in cooking. You need to cook only your husband’s favorite dish on your own. In the same way, you need to change the rest of the items on the list, this will free up a lot of time that can be spent on original and unusual congratulations.
How to congratulate in the morning?
Congratulations in the morning are the best start to a holiday for any man, no matter what date he celebrates. But before you congratulate your husband on his anniversary by drawing or playing a quest, it is worth considering how convenient it will be.
In the event that the birthday man has a day off, there are no restrictions for the embodiment of fantasy, except for the preferences of the hero of the anniversary. But if a person needs to get to work in 15-20 minutes, any game congratulations will not be entirely appropriate.
A win-win option for morning greetings is a game quest, during which the birthday boy needs to look for small surprises. A man should look for these surprises, guided by notes, the text of which contains indications of where a small gift is hidden.
The style of writing texts can be anything - riddles, short poems, charades. In the event that the spouse is not inclined to decipher the hidden meaning or games in association, you can write simply by indicating the direction. There are also no restrictions on the design of notes. These can be photographs of a birthday person, from the youngest years to the present. There may be multi-colored papers folded into a tube or sheets of notes tied to toys - tanks, airplanes, cars. Often notes are tied to balls, although this is a beautiful option, but not the most masculine one.
As surprises, you can use the simplest and most commonplace things your spouse needs at the moment. Socks, brushes, shampoos, deodorants, combs, underwear, etc. are appropriate here, which is not entirely positively accepted as a gift. With this design, these little things will delight the birthday man. But wives should not forget that this is only part of the congratulations, not gifts for the anniversary.
If the husband does not have time in the morning, then you can decorate the bathroom and place useful little things on a shelf in front of the mirror, decorating them and writing unpretentious, but pleasant congratulations.
How to congratulate at breakfast?
Congratulate her husband on his anniversary, flashing his gastronomic knowledge and cookery talents, it is quite possible during breakfast. You need to prepare in the evening, and serve something tasty and, possibly, “harmful” on the table, for example, pizza or hamburgers, hot dogs. Of course, one should proceed from the preferences of the hero of the day and his age. It is possible that at breakfast it would be more appropriate to congratulate her husband on his 50th birthday with a kidney cake or dessert.
That is, on the table should be your favorite food, which the spouse does not eat daily. It does not matter how much the dish suits morning time or dietary beliefs. On holidays, these patterns and prohibitions should not be relevant. Of course, if the husband does not have health problems.
Of course, the table needs to be served, not to forget about the bouquet of flowers, napkins and other attributes of the holiday. A good addition to the anniversary breakfast is non-alcoholic wine. In the event that it could not be bought, grape juice will do. The main thing is the surroundings. That is, there is no place for glasses and everyday mugs on the festive morning table. They should be replaced by beautiful cups and glasses.
In no case should you forget when preparing to congratulate your husband on his 50th, 40th, 30th birthday or any other holiday about his own appearance. Of course, there is no need to put on an evening dress or brightly colored, but home ordinary clothes on such a morning should be removed away in the closet. A wife on such a day should be beautiful. This is much more important than what will lie on the plate.
Of course, you need to warmly congratulate your spouse, telling him how unique and wonderful he is. The main thing in the congratulation is compliments. But do not forget about sincerity.
Do you need to congratulate in the morning?
Morning is the best time for conjugal congratulations. The words with which you can congratulate a loved one at home, after waking up, differ from those phrases that are pronounced publicly, in the presence of guests. In congratulations in private, affectionate home nicknames, cute playful epithets, comparisons and coquetry, which have no place at an official celebration, are appropriate.
Pondering a congratulation, it is worth taking into account the age of the husband. A combination of phrases, ideal for congratulating her husband on his 30th birthday, is not suitable for contacting an elderly person.
What to say in the morning?
It is not necessary to say something in your own words, it is quite possible to sing a song or to recite poems. Paradoxical as it may seem, the vast majority of wives cannot find the right words or are embarrassed to pronounce them, fearing that they will look stupid.
An example of a morning greeting in verse:
“The day is not easy.
The anniversary is yours today.
I've been cooking all night
Without closing eyes.
And what is prepared - you eat now.
Let me congratulate you
Without waiting for the evening.
And give you a present
My dear (name). "
While the spouse unfolds the package, you still need to wish him something in his own words. It is important not to forget to kiss her husband, give him several compliments, and be sure to smile.
How to congratulate on an important date?
Congratulating your husband on an anniversary of 60 years or more is more difficult than a simple birthday. This is a status date requiring respect. Moreover, at an elegant age, men often have health problems that impose certain restrictions on nutrition and much more.
But this does not mean at all that with such a date there is no place for originality. The spouse, even if he is an avid homebody, in any case has interests. It makes sense to spend this day in accordance with them. For example, go to an exhibition of equipment or watch a blockbuster in a modern cinema. Dine in a restaurant, ride a ferris wheel or a boat.
The point is to spend this day as unusual as possible. How often do older people dine in restaurants? Of course, if a man is a typical layman, and not the head of his own company, then rarely. But even if the husband is a big businessman, you can always find an option for spending the day that is not typical.
What to say to the elderly spouse?
Of course, you need to turn to your spouse with congratulations in the morning, without waiting for the official celebration. Speech should not be dry or official.
Congratulation example:
"My dear! On your anniversary, I so want you to live this day in a special way. Today I want to thank you so much for the long years of happiness that you gave me. For every sunny day, you still have an incredible amount ahead of you. I wish you good health and that the enthusiasm in your eyes never disappears. So that you always remain the same as you were - young and beautiful, full of strength and ideas, reliable and kind. Happy birthday, my love! ”
Of course, thinking over kind words, one must proceed from specific circumstances. For example, you should not wish health to a person suffering from cancer of the last stage.