One of the most difficult questions facing young parents is the choice of the name of the unborn child. Many people begin to think about this during pregnancy, and there are such parents who for a long time can not decide what to name the baby after his birth. It is very difficult to come to a common opinion on this issue, since each member of the family will consider it his duty to speak out on this subject and offer, in his opinion, the only right option. So, how to choose a name for the unborn child, without creating any conflict situations.
Young parents are the only people who are endowed with the right to choose a name for their baby. Only they must make a final decision on this issue. All grandparents and aunts already once found themselves in a similar situation and made their decision, now it is up to the newly minted mom and dad. It is they who bear all the responsibility for this difficult choice. So how to choose a name for the unborn child and what must be taken into account in this case?
It is very important that the baby’s name was combined with his middle name and did not look ridiculous at the same time. For example, it is difficult to imagine Georges Ivanovich or Raquel Igorevna. It must be remembered that children will not always remain children, they will grow, and in the future they will be contacted using middle names. For this reason, foreign names are best given along with the same exotic middle name or last name.
Another extreme observed recently has been the appropriation of ancient names, for example, Yadvig, Svyatoslav, Glafira, Praskovya, Ignat. Do not forget that such a choice can make the baby an object of ridicule from his peers for a very long time. It is possible that as soon as the offspring has the opportunity to change this set of letters pleasing to the hearing of the parents, he will certainly use it. The name should not suppress a person and cause him inconvenience, rather, on the contrary, it gives strength and reveals the character of its owner, and also disposes surrounding people.
So still, how to choose a name for the unborn child, so that it harmoniously exists with him? To do this, it is worth taking a closer look at the newborn, his appearance, behavior, sound, voice and other features. Sometimes mother thinks that Yegor lives in her stomach, and after his birth understands that it’s Kolya and nothing else. You need to trust your intuition in this matter.
Most likely, only the lazy and future parents will not want to choose a name for the unborn child, they will hear plenty of comments about their name options. For this reason, the chosen option is best kept secret until its registration in the registry office. So the parents will keep exactly the name that, in the best possible way, suits, in their opinion, the baby.
Many people believe that a name is not only a combination of letters, often pronounced to a specific person, but also a vector that determines fate. Even if future parents are distrustful of this theory, they should at least look at the description of their chosen option for the sake of interest. So it may turn out that the name you like carries a lot of negative qualities, or, conversely, helps to make the child's life easier and happier.
A lot of information has been written about how to choose a name for an unborn child, but you still have to rely on your preferences, established traditions in the family and society. Sometimes the race for fashion can lead to the fact that instead of the original and beautiful name, the baby will get the one that is called a huge number of children. Such a situation, for example, occurred with the names Nikita, Daniel, Egor, Artem, Daria and Alina. They constitute the main contingent of all Russian kindergartens. Interestingly, Sergei, Olga, Ivan, Mikhail, Nikolai, on the contrary, have become rare names in our time.