Today we will talk about what constitutes an amber wedding and what to give spouses for this celebration. First, we will touch on the feeling that ties partners for a long time. It is love that allows spouses to celebrate an amber, and then a golden wedding.
Love…
The main secret of a long marriage is understanding spouses. People say good, pleasant words to each other, swear eternal love, promise to be there for the rest of their days, not understanding, in fact, that love comes over the years, and at the beginning of a relationship it is passion, love, sympathy. Everything seems beautiful to a person when a feeling of falling in love makes you literally flutter a butterfly over an object of adoration.
Hormones of happiness in the body are secreted in a frantic amount. We like this condition. We forget about tomorrow and live only here and now. We can’t look at our soulmate, and parting even for one day, we can’t find a place for ourselves. Pulling friend to friend with some incredible power. I would like to touch, hug, inhale the aroma of a loved one, spend the last pennies on a bouquet of flowers, and just invite to a meeting in a square or for a walk in the autumn park.
In the period of falling in love, a person sees in everything only the positive. He feels good because he loves and love him. The candy-bouquet period ends before entering the registry office. Yes, the first 2-3 years are still fine, and both soar, although the flight altitude is markedly reduced. Draws to the ground what? That's right - life. Wisdom, as they say, comes over the years. But while she arrives (if she deigns to come at all), so much firewood can be broken that enough to warm all of Chukotka. Therefore, at the beginning and throughout the whole family life, you often need to listen to the advice of mothers, fathers, grandparents, and not only your own. Sometimes you see a man somewhere in the subway for the first and last time in his life, and he will briefly tell you all his life for half an hour’s trip - how he lived with his wife, how he swore, how to put up and how to learn how to avoid quarrels. Draw this wisdom from any sources and apply.
Family
Nowadays, the institution of the family is not very well. The couple is in no hurry to legitimize the relationship, and the number of official divorces is only increasing. Why? Yes, because the family is not only a shower for two, coffee in bed and the overall budget. Family is a huge internal work. It is contrary to its principles and pride to change, reconsider your views, sacrifice your interests, admit your mistakes and ask for forgiveness even when you are right to forgive, learn to tolerate what is not yet possible to change in a partner. And yes, the most common rule that few people use for some reason is to shut up in time! Who says it's easy? This is incredibly hard work.
The bulk of modern youth generally grew up as idlers. Hard times, parents plowed in factories, and there wasn’t much time for children, and grandparents spared their grandchildren and instead of a broom they gave them candy and oranges. A generation of children has grown up who is sometimes too lazy to give a rag in his house, not to mention building, grooming and cherishing marital relations. This is an overwhelming burden for them. Hence the divorces, the reasons for which in 90% sound like "did not agree on the characters."
Amber Wedding. How many years of living together?
Fortunately, nowadays, young people have examples of families that have been living together for decades and do not stop loving and taking care of each other.
Family life at 34 years is not in vain called an amber wedding. It is precisely this time that is needed in order for the marriage union to finally strengthen, like stone amber. After all, everyone knows: for the resin to be converted into a valuable metal, it takes more than one decade.
34 years of marriage - this is the period when the marriage is fully tested for strength. People say that the amber wedding is the beginning of a new life.
Celebration
Such a celebration can be noted at home, in nature or in a restaurant. Relatives and closest friends are invited. The table should be covered with a golden tablecloth. At the head, where the heroes of the occasion will sit, some symbol of their date is put.
It can be an amber cup with a saucer and a spoon or an amber angel figurine. According to folk customs, spouses should be dressed in clothes of red or yellow color on this day. A woman must have an amber jewelry - a pendant, beads, a ring or a bracelet. Thematically necessary and arrange the room in which the celebration will take place.
Amber Wedding. What to gift?
On the thirty-fourth wedding anniversary, the husband must give his wife some amber jewelry - earrings, pendants, necklaces. And a wife can give her husband some necessary accessory - an amber cigarette case or cufflinks. How to choose a gift for an amber wedding for parents?
Children of spouses can present a beautiful floor lamp with a wooden carved base, on which there will be amber splashes. Another presentation option is luxurious jacquard bedding with golden embroidery. A great gift from children will be a trip for two on a trip. It is advisable to go where the parents have not been. Relatives and friends can give spouses what they want. A man can be presented with a spinning rod or a fisherman’s suitcase, and a woman can get a subscription to the spa or pool.
How to please spouses who have an amber wedding? It is advisable, on such a day, to give a present that is useful to both - a picnic set, theater tickets for two, etc. The fantasy is endless, as they say.
Entertainment
To entertain guests, you can invite a vocalist with a personal synthesizer, as well as magicians. Also, an amber wedding will be even more interesting if performers of oriental belly dancing and virtuoso guitarists will perform at the celebration.
On this day, the couple must kiss under the friendly cries of the guests: "Bitter!"
Understanding is the key to a long relationship
Scientists believe that the enemy of family relationships is eternal debate, misunderstanding, irritation and indifference. It is allowed to be sad and indignant, but only in unison, which is practically impossible for modern couples. Scientists from research institutions in different countries have identified four reasons for a long and happy family relationship: a long period of premarital relations, a clear division of responsibilities in the family, a husband should be about 6 years older than his wife, regularly communicate with each other - at least 30 minutes a day.
But no matter what discoveries scientists in the sphere of marital relations make, one must not forget that love is so fragile that it can die from misunderstanding, intolerance, quarrels, understatement and insults. Take care of the relationship!
Congratulation
If your friends will soon have an amber wedding, congratulations may be as follows:
Amber sparkles over the years
What did you two live together.
There were all sorts of adversities,
They knew we’ll survive.
We took care of the family hearth,
Home, work, children, life.
In petty quarrels and insults
Family debt is not forgotten.
You always walked together
This life is not easy.
And now we wish you
Survive the golden wedding!
Conclusion
Now you know what to give to spouses if they have an amber wedding. Photos of some gifts for clarity are presented in the article. We wish you good luck in choosing a presentation for your husband and wife!