Teenagers are gentle and at the same time aggressive creatures. Difficult age usually starts at 13 years old. When this period ends, it’s hard to say for sure. It all depends on the personality itself, its worldview and the attitude of others. The peak of rebellion falls on the period from 15 to 17 years. This is due to a change in the psychological background in adolescents.
Difficult age is a synonym for puberty. Teenagers cease to consider themselves children, they begin to think that they are adults and self-sufficient people. Rebellion is due to the fact that parents, most often, still see children in them. Most conflicts are motivated by endless prohibitions and disagreements with them. If you want to prohibit something, it is better to submit it in the form of advice or a request. Try to find another hobby for the child that will replace what you want to ban.
The most difficult age is puberty. Not only the psychological background of the personality is changing, but also its body. According to statistics, over the past five years, the age of entry into the first intimate relationship has reached 14 years. These are the consequences of a difficult transition.
In most cases, conversations on intimate topics do not bring positive results. How to behave to parents? Firstly, you should not perceive a child as a child. If a teenager considers himself an adult, then you need to treat him accordingly. This applies not only to conversations, but also to his requirements. Just do not need to do this with pathos and mockery. Do not challenge your child to conflict. Secondly, it is worth paying more attention to what your child is fond of, with whom he communicates, wherever happens. Perhaps in some ways your interests will coincide. This will help to unite. A difficult age is such because a teenager feels an incomprehensible, unrecognized genius. Try to understand him. Or at least pretend that you understand. But do not overdo it. Teenagers are especially keen on falsity.
Difficult adolescence is accompanied by the development of sexuality. It is important to notice this point to parents. What for? In order to develop self-esteem in a child in time , normal self-esteem and taste. The latter is important. If taste is present, the teenager will never commit rash acts. For example, drink cheap alcohol and indulge in the first encounter of intimate joys.
A difficult age is, of course, a period of rebellion against parents and their foundations. Nevertheless, teenagers can always be negotiated. If you know how to interest them, then you can always avoid conflicts. Do you indulge whims? To the best of. If caprice is reasonably explained, then we can meet them. It is important that understanding always reigns in the house. Talk more often with your child, discuss his problems (even if not serious, in your opinion), take an interest in his affairs. Learning is not all that should interest you. Rebellion is due to misunderstanding. If you love your child, then give him as much attention as possible.