For all parents, the time comes when their child becomes a preschool child. It is to this conditional period (namely, one year before the child enters first grade) that adults should pay special attention. Numerous questions rightly arise: how to communicate with a child, how to read preschool educational literature to him, or maybe he should already write, what are the modern requirements for initial knowledge? Parents, as the main people in the life of their offspring, must first of all psychologically prepare him for the upcoming changes in life. Indeed, not only the child’s desire or unwillingness to attend an educational institution and academic performance, but also his formation as a person as a whole depend on it.
How to communicate with a child before school? Of course, there is no urgent need for a daily reminder of an imminent change in status. Conversations should be delicate, unobtrusive. If you think that such communication requires a separate time, do not bother the preschooler with too long a conversation. After all, he is still a child and all the information, even very serious, is best absorbed through the game. No need to scare him with phrases like: "Here at school, you will definitely be reasoned!" or "School is not a kindergarten, there you will be accustomed to order!" You will not even notice such statements thrown in your hearts, and your child will most likely have a negative idea about the educational institution and even fear of it.
How to communicate with a child as a preschool
child , so that if you do not inspire, then at least positively set him up for future changes in life? Be guided by personal experience, even if it is not very pleasant. Remember what you were particularly worried about in school life, and try to prevent similar experiences from your own child. Take out your school photos and view them together. Focus on the first teacher, who was very kind at you and the child will have one. Tell us about what a class is, how you participated in various competitions together and thanks to your cohesion you won victories. Show the best friends with whom you may have a relationship to this day. A personal example of parents will become a guiding star for a child in the world of knowledge unknown to him.
How to communicate with a child before school, if all attempts to teach him at least letters fail? Today's school curriculum is incredibly complex, and teachers recommend that parents teach their children how to read and write before the first grade. Well, if the indefatigable craving for knowledge manifests itself long before the first school year. In this case, children, as a rule, go to the first class already "savvy". But nevertheless, psychologists insist that teaching a child letters and numbers is the task of the teacher. Indeed, at a time when unprepared, by today's standards, children are learning to read and write, “savvy” can lose interest in the educational process. Of course, everything is very individual, and therefore parents should monitor the progress of their child and find the reasons for the discrepancy, in their opinion, of knowledge and assessments.
How to communicate with a child on the eve of the first of September? It is necessary to explain what kind of holiday it is, why they put on their uniforms and not their favorite jeans, and why a bouquet of flowers is needed. We continue to communicate with the child as you would like if you were a preschool child on the eve of the first school day. In addition, experts recommend preparing a child’s room at least a month in advance, especially if major repairs and furniture changes are planned. A preschooler should settle down in a new environment and not experience even pleasant, but still additional stress at this exciting time for everyone to change.