Each year of marriage together is of great importance for the family. People go the hard way together. Each year, the husband and wife know each other better, relations, as they say, are checked by everyday life.
Third anniversary
Over time, the severity of feelings dulls, and in order not to confuse this moment with the complete withering of love, it is necessary to devote more time to talking about what is happening on everyone’s soul. Perhaps this is an appropriate occasion to diversify the established family order. This is how the third wedding anniversary comes unnoticed . What is this date called ? The third anniversary of the couple’s life together is called leather (or wool). The name itself is the essence of this date.
What means?
Marital relations at this stage are associated with malleable material - skin. It is very durable and easy to use if properly looked after. The product after many years of socks can change color, but the strength remains the same. So in the relationship between spouses, who have on their nose the third wedding anniversary. As they say, it is so lived. That's what people say about every anniversary of a life together. According to the second version, the matrimonial path is similar to yarn or wool products. With improper care, they deteriorate at the time and can no longer be used for their intended purpose.
Too hot water can reduce a thing made of wool. Similarly, the hot fervor of one of the spouses, manifested at the time of the conflict, can lay the seed of doubt in the correctness of the choice made three years ago. Although most of the grindings are already behind, you still should not get excited at certain moments. Passion can also fade, a habit will replace it. However, the union is tempered by time and becomes more and more durable. Moreover, the external gloss can always be brought up, but the essence requires much longer and painstaking work. Outside the product, as a rule, is lubricated with cream and by all means prevent its drying out. So it is in married life. Sometimes you should add oil, as they say, to the fire. This is what the third wedding anniversary marks.
The opinion of psychologists
Psychologists note this period of life together as one of the crisis. The fact is that during the first three years of the relationship a person looks closely at his partner, learns himself in a new role, the first difficulties are experienced, his own reaction to various situations is studied. The riot of emotions, but not feelings, gradually subsides. This should not be confused with the fading of love. This period, with the right attitudes and priorities, is a transformation of passion, passion and other feelings into deeper ones. And if the third wedding anniversary is celebrated in an atmosphere of mutual understanding, then the couple has a chance for a strong relationship. Despite even quieter emotions and at times lack of passion, spouses can live together for a long time.
It is after three years that feelings from superficial ones degenerate into deeper ones. Or people, plunged into conflicts and the lack of past emotions, diverge. Many sincerely think that leaving a person will solve the problem. However, as a rule, in a new relationship everything is repeated. That is why the third wedding anniversary is a kind of first serious frontier.
Celebration
The celebration on this occasion is usually organized in an unusual way. This applies to absolutely everything. That is, if up to this point anniversaries were not celebrated at all, the situation should be immediately corrected. In the case when the couple loves to spend free time at home, this is a wonderful reason to have fun in a noisy place. If the couple is among the constantly busy workaholics, the third wedding anniversary is the best time for a romantic trip or a trip out of town with relatives and friends. By the way, it is in their company, according to tradition, that this date is celebrated. That is, the celebration should be designed for a narrow circle of guests.
Festive table
Particular attention on this day should be given to the festive table. It must be present meat. Moreover, different types. Previously, figures of a cow or horse, in the form of which cookies or homemade cakes were made, were necessarily present at the festive feast. This Russian tradition has always indicated that such a celebration is precisely the third wedding anniversary. What kind of booze is accepted at a feast timed to this occasion?
Red wine is preferable, as well as other drinks of this color - juices, fruit drinks, compotes and others. If the celebration date falls on the spring-summer period, then it is optimal to have a picnic or a trip to nature. There you can organize a barbecue, fry meat and vegetables. An abundance of fruits and fresh herbs diversifies the table. After all, this is precisely the main storyline of the third anniversary of life together. Both the table and the celebration itself should be varied.
Restaurant Celebration
When organizing a buffet reception in a restaurant, you should also make sure that the place itself is distinguished by a beautiful interior. After all, congratulations on the third wedding anniversary must be pronounced without fail in a special atmosphere. Perhaps it will be an oriental-style restaurant or something similar. The menu should be original. You can also try exotic dishes from the cuisines of the world. This will give new impressions not only to the married couple as the heroes of the occasion, but also to the guests. However, one should take a reasonable approach to the choice of dishes, observing caution and measure. It is advisable to try some of them first. So that the holiday does not end with a “sick leave”, it is necessary to consider which of the guests suffer from food allergies and which products. Prior approval of the menu would be very appropriate.
Gifts for spouse
Family holidays are responsible events that require special attention and preliminary preparation, especially if this is the third wedding anniversary. As they say, what to give - many are interested in such issues. When going to a celebration, you need to learn a little more about what this date is. Referred to as leather (or woolen), the anniversary suggests appropriate gifts. For example, haberdashery - notepads, covers for documents, wallets, bags, belts, gloves and other items useful in everyday life. You can also give a certificate to purchase these accessories. All this is perfectly suited as a gift for such a celebration as the third wedding anniversary. Congratulations to the husband, uttered in the morning, can be supplemented by a present in the form of a watch on a leather strap, if the wife, of course, is not superstitious. Indeed, according to legend, you can not give your loved ones such objects. The clock will count down the time remaining before separation. Today, few believe in such signs.
After all, a watch is not only a memorable, but in some cases a very valuable gift. You can engrave them with the name of the owner, the date of donation or pleasant wishes.
DIY gifts
Hand-made gifts are also traditional. Earlier (and sometimes it happens in our time), wives knitted products for their husbands from pure wool. It could be a sweater, sweater, scarf, socks or mittens. All these garments presented in the form of gifts spoke of the care and love of the spouse. Indeed, in a sweater, carefully tied by the hands of his wife, it was both warmer and more comfortable. Modern clothing manufacturers offer a huge selection of quality wool products. Therefore, those women who do not have needlework skills should not be upset.
After all, the main thing is that behind three years of marriage with a spouse, and ahead of the holiday is the third wedding anniversary. What to gift? A suitable option can be found in clothing and accessories stores. This gift will warm your spouse with your warmth and remind you of love and care. Also, do not forget about soft rugs, blankets and other bedding made of wool. These things are able to give comfort and warmth to both spouses. Also, do not forget that woolen clothing (thanks to technology) is intended not only for winter cold and autumn weather. Now there is a wide range of products that can be worn in the summer. Thin coat perfectly supports the natural temperature of the body, preventing it from freezing or overheating.
Gifts for spouse
Previously, there was also a tradition according to which the husband and wife exchanged leather gloves on the day of the celebration under the name "third wedding anniversary." What to give a spouse on the occasion of the holiday, each man himself knows better. Since for three years he probably managed to get acquainted with her tastes and passions. Good gift options are: leather bags, accessories, and jewelry. Today, many stores offer a range of knitted jewelry. It can be a necklace or a string of beads, an openwork scarf or stole, as well as a scarf or scarf.
Gloves made by hand knitting from thin wool yarn look very interesting and unusual. This accessory will emphasize the femininity and subtlety of the wife’s brush. Of leather goods, shoes are never superfluous. On this occasion, you can treat your spouse with an elegant and beautiful pair of shoes. This will certainly become an occasion to go to a special place to "walk" the new thing. Both spouses will benefit from this gift. The wife will be pleased to wear quality shoes, and her husband - to admire the beauty of female legs. A mandatory attribute of the holiday are fresh flowers. Moreover, any woman is always pleased to receive them.
Congratulations
Finding a fresh bouquet at the present time is not difficult, even if the third wedding anniversary falls in the winter. Congratulations on this solemn day should sound from relatives and relatives, and also, of course, come from a pure heart. A family with a small but tangible experience should wish for wisdom, patience and understanding in order to survive all the hardships that may occur on a joint path. It is necessary to focus on what the spouses have already managed to do for their family. Perhaps this day was timed to coincide with a moment of testing the senses for strength, or the couple managed to overcome serious everyday difficulties.
Each of the three years of marriage has an individual experience. Many couples already have children by this time. In this case, you need to wish the family continued prosperity so that everything is smooth, like baby’s skin, and sincerely warm, like in clothes made of natural wool. On this day, parents can share their experience in building family relationships. And the children, in turn, should thank them for their help, support and understanding.
Conclusion
Three years is a good time for the family. The memories of the first date are still fresh, but it’s already easier to get along with your spouse, so be sure to celebrate such a celebration.