Pregnancy. Many young couples in love are very scared when they learn about its onset, and some, on the contrary, consider this condition a gift from heaven, God. Fear of pregnancy is natural, especially if the partners have not reached the age of majority. Agree, if a girl is pregnant at the age of 13-15 years - this contradicts both the moral standards by which modern society lives and the natural physiological maturation of the body. But in case the girl is pregnant at a minor age, there are two ways out. Either an abortion, after which criminal liability for the seduction of minors, or family life and the birth of a child.
Very often in a limitless sea of Internet pages you can come across the question: "my girlfriend is pregnant, what to do, how to do the right thing." There is no definite answer to this question, since it all depends on the circumstances, the material well-being of the family, the state of health of the young mother, etc. First you need to understand yourself, are you ready to become parents? Can you bear the entire burden of responsibility that will fall on your still quite fragile shoulders after the birth of the baby? In any case, you and your pregnant girl should decide what to do next.
After you can come to one common opinion (either childbirth and a wedding, or an abortion), you need to talk very seriously with your parents that your girlfriend is pregnant, while illuminating them about your plans for the future. Of course, most parents support their sons in this, since children, despite the fact that they were not planned, are the flowers of life. Then, having the courage to buy a ring and a bouquet of beautiful flowers, go with your parents (father's presence is obligatory) to your future wife's house. Explain the whole situation to the family to the pregnant girl and ask your lover's hand and heart, in case of a positive response from her and parental approval - run to get ready for the wedding, as well as for a consultation with the gynecologist who will conduct the first ultrasound.
But, unfortunately, as statistics show, many young couples, fearing the anger and anger of their parents, resort to abortion, completely unaware of the consequences of this intervention in the body of a young woman. After the couple finds out that the girl is pregnant, they look for methods to get rid of the newly born fetus.
A well-known fact is that it is strictly forbidden to have an abortion to a minor without parental permission. Therefore, inexperienced and frightened couples rush to the pages of the World Wide Web in search of “illegal” abortion and, unfortunately, find it. Charlatans, posing as experienced and qualified doctors, extorting quite large amounts of money from adolescents, offer their services. An abortion requires both sanitary conditions and certain skills, since the future of a pregnant girl, her health and even life depend on the availability of these conditions.
We strongly recommend that if your girl is in an “interesting” position, think and analyze what the consequences of an abortion in unsanitary conditions can be for someone who does not even have basic medical knowledge, which will negatively affect the health of your beloved. Try to talk with your parents, because "the devil is not so terrible as he is painted." The maximum that they can do is to scold you, scream, threaten you with separation from the girl, but over time, when they cool down and begin to evaluate what has happened objectively, their opinions may change dramatically and they will become the happiest grandparents in the world.