To become a human child, you need the right education. All his further fate depends on the contribution of parents to the baby’s personality and knowledge: lifestyle, thoughts, choice of company and the like. First of all, the child needs to educate moral needs. These include: responsiveness, the ability to active kindness and the installation of "do no harm to anyone."
Parenting in the family is based on the following principles
- Do not forget and do not hesitate to show your love in relations with your child.
- Do not resort to force in the process of education, otherwise the child may have the impression that everything in life can be achieved with the help of force.
- Always keep the promises given to the child, then you will not lose the trust of your child.
- So that the baby does not lose confidence in himself and his strengths, you should not scold and punish him for every bad act, you can sometimes just give an assessment of the situation and tell how the baby should behave in it.
- Do not scold the child in the presence of strangers so that he does not feel humiliated.
- The kid should feel like a part of the family, do everything possible for this.
- Control and, if necessary, adjust the environment of your crumbs, because it’s not a secret to anyone that hostility breeds hostility, and politeness - respect, and so on.
Child up to a year
A kid, having been born, only learns to understand our world, every day he learns something new. He is defenseless, and therefore it is at this age that no one else needs his parents. The child understands little, but perfectly feels the kindness and care of loved ones. All he needs during this period of his life is to be sure that his mother and father love him. The baby takes all the time of the parents and requires a lot of physical strength, but despite the fatigue, it is important to maintain a warm atmosphere in your nest so that the baby is comfortable developing and learning about the adult world.
Child from year to 5 years
Children of this age are especially curious and inquisitive, they absorb all the information like a sponge. The child is already sufficiently developed physically, knows how to express his opinion and attitude to one or another
mu subject or action. These children often ask questions, and parents need to be patient and calmly answer them, without exception, even if the baby asks the same questions several times. In this period of development, their environment changes in children, in addition to mom and dad, the child increasingly communicates with children in the yard and kindergarten. You will notice that your child has his favorite cartoons, songs and activities. The main thing in order to become a person is that the child needs to explain everything that is happening and interests him from the point of view of morality, that is, tell and teach what is “good” and what is “bad”.
Child 6-7 years old
Your child is entering a new period in his life - he is going to school. Now your child begins to realize that he has his own responsibilities, and, of course, it will be difficult to reconcile to the recent crumb, who has been playing and having fun all the time. The task of parents is to explain to the child the importance and necessity of the educational process, at first to pay a lot of attention to joint homework, do not leave him alone with possible difficulties, he should feel that he is not alone, and then getting used to school and the emergence of responsibilities will be less painful.
Preschool education of children should not lie solely on the shoulders of teachers in kindergarten, parents are obliged to make a significant contribution to the upbringing of their child. To make it so that the child is easily given all the beginnings at school.
Factors Affecting Parenting
Absolutely any factors from the world around us can influence the development and upbringing of a child, therefore the task of mom and dad is to protect him as much as possible from the influence of negative factors and inculcate good features and morals in his character. None of the parents will ever succeed in protecting their child from such phenomena of our lives as envy, anger, betrayal, lies and so on. But the upbringing of children in the family should equip them with knowledge and algorithms for correct behavior in a given situation. In other words, parents should prepare the little man for adulthood.
The main factors affecting the development of the child are family relationships and the process of education itself. To become a person, a child needs to see harmonious, warm relationships between members of his family. This factor has a strong influence on the baby, because he begins to feel the atmosphere within the family, while still in the womb. When forming the elements of the process itself, it is necessary to take into account the peculiarities of raising children. It should be borne in mind that the influence on the worldview of a child is exerted not only by his closest relatives, but also by peers and educators in kindergarten. However, the most important task for parents should be to instill values and the right position, on the basis of which the character of the child will be formed , thanks to the knowledge embedded in him, he will easily be guided in all life situations.
Grandmothers
It is necessary to stipulate in advance the points regarding the upbringing of your child with grandparents, otherwise, the baby may begin to perceive them as “good”, since everything will be allowed to him, and parents as “bad”, since only they are engaged in his upbringing, They forbid something, they scold for something. For example, a baby should understand that a lot of candies are harmful, and not that mother feels sorry for her, but grandmother doesn’t. If your parents do not make compromises, then you can threaten them with a restriction in communicating with their grandson, since this is still primarily your child and you are responsible for his upbringing. But still, do not be too strict with your grandparents, because you yourself sometimes do not mind pampering your child.
To become a person, a child needs a lot. There is nothing impossible and supernatural in raising children, more kindness, patience and affection, and you will succeed.