Giving gifts and saying beautiful words are very useful skills, but what if a person is not able to show his feelings like that? In this case, you need to seek help and advice from friends, books, the Internet, so that the wishes of the mother-in-law will please all the relatives of the husband.
How to present words?
Many people have problems when they have to make any important speech. This can happen with congratulations and wishes of the mother in law happy birthday. In order to avoid embarrassing situations, you should:
- Find out from her husband what qualities a mother has and what she likes.
- Prepare a speech in advance.
- Talk after a few people to trace the manner of presentation.
- Handle with respect.
- During the speech, monitor the reaction of the mother-in-law and guests.
- Do not drag out congratulations.
If the girl is not sure that she will be able to cope on her own, then it is best to say wishes with her husband, since the mother-in-law will definitely appreciate his words. At the end of the evening you can present your words in private.
Wishes not in words
It is always nice to receive gifts, so you can present them to your mother’s husband. You should carefully approach the choice of what will be presented. There are options when beautiful wishes are already written on the gift:
- soft toy with the inscription (for example, good luck, happiness, love);
- original postcard (musical, puzzle);
- mug, pen, pencil;
- T-shirt with the inscription (beloved, best, dear mother-in-law) and the like.
An excellent gift, at the same time, an indicator of skill will be a pie or cake, prepared independently. On it, you can also draw the wishes of the mother-in-law. Such a gesture will show not only the good attitude of the daughter-in-law, but also her originality, which will be positively appreciated by the other relatives of the husband.
Toasts at the table
Usually, a large company gathers at the birthday party, in which case you will not have to make long speeches, a couple of phrases will be enough, and the rest of the guests will complete their wishes. Examples of toasts or congratulations from a daughter-in-law:
- I wish you loving loved ones, mutual understanding, support and trust;
- only become more beautiful every year;
- long and happy years;
- please us with your beautiful smile and infectious laughter;
- I am grateful to you for your support and support, you unite the whole family together, like a real guardian of the hearth;
- let dreams come true and dreams come true;
- give your warmth and invaluable experience to future generations;
- take care of yourself, because you are our support and support in difficult times;
- may there be as many joyful moments in your life as possible.
Before you say these words, it is best to add "Let's drink for ..." or "I would like to say / thank / wish ...". These phrases will help to correctly build speech. At the end, you can add “For you!”, “All the best to you”, “Happy holiday”, such general endings do not give an emotional coloring, but at the same time show the completeness of speech.
Words in private
It happens that the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law does not add up or do not contain confidence. In this case, you need to talk in private, in this way it will be possible to get closer. Wishing your mother-in-law for a birthday in your own words is the best option, you need to talk about what matters, what needs to be fixed, and focusing on good points is best done by making toasts at the table in front of the guests.
An example of a wish: “Dear, you have become a part of my family for me, which I am very happy about, because your experience and knowledge are very valuable. I take all the advice and suggestions and hope that mine will be heard, because we should trust each other more. Your family seems friendly and loving to me, now I understand whose merit it is. I wish only the good, only that you yourself want and, of course, more smiles, joy and light, grateful children and understanding relatives. I hope that with in time, I will call you mom, as your future grandchildren will call me. "
Own verses
Poetry has always been a delight in the hearts of people, so you can show creativity and write a small poem that will be dedicated to the mother-in-law. It is not necessary to read it aloud, moreover, it may be inappropriate if the relationship is not established or women have recently met. In this case, it is reasonable to put the poem in a postcard. Writing Tips:
use facts (knows how to cook, sings beautifully);
to mention a pleasant acquaintance;
Do not joke, avoid ambiguity.
Example poem:
You tell my mother in law
Why don't you sleep all night?
I know, think often
How we live
But the thought is in vain ...
Let's say
What is your support
Helped us more than once.
I know no matter what happens
Help us out right there.
I pray for you to God,
To help you.
To bright and beautiful
Every day now became.
The main thing in writing a poem, wishes of the mother-in-law is to speak from the heart, not being afraid of the manifestation of feelings and emotions. Mom of the husband can trust the daughter-in-law after a frank conversation.
Words of gratitude
Whatever the relationship, there is always a reason to say something good and gentle to another person. The words of a mother-in-law's wish can be very simple, but coming from the soul: family well-being, mutual understanding, warmth and love, trust, success in all endeavors, fulfillment of desires, and so on.
Usually they wish, using common phrases, so it is best to include elements of gratitude in the speech, for example, for advice, support, help, attention. You can give a concrete example and explain how much it meant. It is possible that the mother-in-law will begin to trust the daughter-in-law more if she opens her soul to her and talks about her feelings.