The appearance of the baby in the house is a big and very bright holiday for his parents, grandparents, for family friends. The congratulations, warm wishes and simply kind words that sound on this day are usually addressed to adults. But is this fair?
Of course, the child himself will not understand the speech addressed to him. However, the kids feel unerringly towards them. Even those that have just been born. In addition, the wishes of the child will bring great joy to the parents of the newborn. Therefore, neglecting the warm words spoken by a small family member is not necessary.
How to talk with a newborn?
For many people who do not have their own children, it is difficult to imagine not at all what the wish of a newborn child should be, but the process of talking with the baby. Indeed, how to turn to a newborn? How to choose a tone in a voice, intonation in a speech?
Many are forced to refuse to congratulate a small family member by the fear that the child will cry. Parents can decide that the guest was frightened by something, or upset. In this situation, not a single person invited to celebrate the arrival of a small child from the maternity ward of the hospital will want to be.
In fact, everything is simple. No need to worry, this creates unnaturalness, which the baby instantly feels, and parents hear. Wishes to the newborn should be said as simple and sincerely as possible. There is no need to memorize long texts, a child cannot consider congratulating and perceive the sounds of his speech for too long.
Do I need to give a gift to a newborn?
This question also arises after receiving an invitation to a holiday in honor of the baby. Of course, nobody will go empty-handed to visit such a special occasion. However, is it worth being limited to a present that is useful and necessary for a young family, or is it necessary to purchase something else for the newborn himself? On the one hand, it seems to be necessary. After all, it’s not very convenient to turn to the little one with words and wishes empty-handed. And on the other hand, to give an object into the hands of a newborn is not correct and not particularly hygienic.
The way out of this situation is also simple. Wishes for the newborn should be accompanied by a gift, but it should be given into the hands of the parents. This is not very difficult to do. You can end the congratulatory speech with the phrase: “But I will give this wonderful rattle to your mother, she will wash it, and you will begin to play when you grow up a little.” Thus, it turns out that both the baby with the gift and hygiene are not broken, and the parents of the newborn are satisfied.
How to choose a style of wishes?
They say the best wishes for the newborn in his own words, without ornate and memorized phrases. However, this option is not always suitable. Many cannot come up with a text that can be voiced in such a situation. No fewer people believe that the wish for the little one should be spectacular and beautiful.
The correct version of wishes for the newborn will be one that seems appropriate for a congratulating adult baby. This is the key to making a wish come true. If a person does not like the words spoken by him, then they will also upset the child. Accordingly, the prepared wishes for the newborn should be pleasant to the one who says them.
What could be your wishes?
The main genres of wish texts for the smallest are no different from the speech options for large ones. Accordingly, this:
Narrow styles such as the parable, fable, ode and others should not be used. They can and should be told to the parents of the baby at the festive table. Speech addressed to the newborn himself should not be long, warm and simple.
How to make your own wish?
Often people invited to a celebration in honor of the baby want to make their own wishes, but they don’t know how to do this. The phrases that come to mind seem not entirely appropriate for the occasion. There is a desire to congratulate a small family member with their own text also because those invited to visit are afraid to choose a ready-made option. After all, others may choose exactly the same, and the situation will not be the most pleasant.
In fact, there is nothing difficult in composing your own text. The finished favorite wish should be taken as a basis and replaced in it words, while maintaining the overall rhythm of the text. To do this, the newborn will need to be said out loud, which is also good, because when compiling a text, a person also rehearses his own speech.
What to say to the girl in verse?
Poetic wishes are a form of congratulations beloved by many people. In addition, the verses sound more musical, which means that it will be more pleasant for a newborn to listen to the sounds of speech.
Wishes to a newborn girl in a poetic genre can sound like this:
Hello hello baby.
Here you are at home.
Mom and Dad are nearby.
Grow up when a little bit
Eat lots of sweets.
I want to wish you
In every day - discoveries.
Many books and toys,
And what would always be events.
Every day in fun
And evenings in comfort.
Your first year has gone.
You are a little miracle ”
Girls from birth are more susceptible to musical speech than boys, so the baby will surely like the verses she told.
What to say to the girl in prose?
Not everyone loves poetic congratulations. In that case, if you clearly feel the internal prejudice to poetic lines, you need to say the wishes of the newborn in prose.
An example of a wish for a girl:
Hello (baby name). When you get older and bigger, we will definitely meet you. And while you're still a baby, I want to wish you all the most joyful that can be in the world. A lot of toys and delicious porridge. Have more warm and sunny days. Smiles around, warmth and comfort. Grow big for the joy of mom and dad
Compliments should be avoided in wishes. Many people believe in the likelihood of the evil eye and the abundance of flattery in addressing a newborn can upset her parents or grandmothers.
What to say to the boy in verse?
Boys less than girls are susceptible to musical speech. However, they are much better than girls feel her rhythm. Accordingly, the little boy will also like the appeal in poetic form.
Wishes to a newborn boy in verse may sound like this:
"Hi baby! Do not sleep? Do not sleep.
Take your wish.
Grow large, to the very roofs.
Dream, play, learn.
But you’re not a bully,
Be obedient, baby "
The poem selected for the newly born little boy should have a clear rhythm. From birth, boys pay attention to rhythmic sounds, just like girls to melody.
What to say to the boy in prose?
Wishing a little boy in prose is not much different from the words spoken to the girls. You should also refrain from excessive amounts of compliments and not be too verbose.
A wish itself can become like this:
“Hello, little man. Hello, (baby's name). Congratulations on starting your first year in life. Ahead of them you know how much will be? I wish you great achievements, good appetite and lots of fun every day. Grow big and strong like dad. Beautiful and smart as a mother "
In prose congratulations, brevity is the most important thing. If a person begins to speak for a long time, and his speech will be pleasant to the hearing of the newborn, then the baby will simply fall asleep.
How to say briefly?
Short wishes to the newborn is the best option for speech if there are many guests and they all want to say something to the hero of the holiday. In addition, in short wishes there is a plus for those who speak them. It is much easier to find a few sincere warm words for a newly born baby than to address him with a big speech.
Short requests may sound as follows:
“Congratulations, (name of the child). I wish you good nights filled with light and joy of days. ”
"Hello, little (baby name)." Accept congratulations. Look what I have for you. Like? I will give the toy to mom. When you grow up, you will play with her. I wish you many more toys, good appetite and smiles around ”
“Congratulations, little princess (baby name). May your every day be filled with magic and happiness. And all your wishes and dreams come true ”