The children's song describes the injustice of the kids in about the following words: he must jump everywhere, touch everything, kick his legs, otherwise he will explode, fuck - broads! It is well known that a child must move. But even this has a limit when the baby cannot calmly sit and listen to a fairy tale, draw, get carried away by playing in the sandbox, talk with his grandmother, mother or brother. For some children, this simply does not work. If the family manages to sit such a troubled child, then it will manage to twist its head, swing its legs, swing its arms and still can not concentrate on the right thing. These are hyperactive children. What should parents do to help them cope with their own injustice?
Most importantly, you need to understand that your baby is not to blame for anything. It is not specially twisted and twisted. This is his problem, and on the part of adults he needs help, and not endless prohibitions and punishments. Raising a hyperactive child requires a special approach from parents: they do not struggle with the energy of a son or daughter, but direct it in the right direction. It is hard work, but it is rewarded. It is important to start acting as early as possible, and not expect the notorious “outgrow”. You may need the help of a specialist neurologist or psychologist.
Activity, activity and again activity is what hyperactive children require. What should parents do if they are used to a more relaxed lifestyle? Rebuild! The whole family can begin to engage in morning exercises, take hiking or cycling, get carried away by any sport. If this is not enough, a sports section and dancing classes will come to the rescue. Thus, excess energy will find its way out, sleep will normalize. But this will not solve all the difficulties of a hyperactive child.
Lack of attention and inability to concentrate are more serious problems that hyperactive children experience . What to do with it? Most experts say that these qualities need to be developed. Mom can devote time every day to exercises that require more perseverance. Finding such activities is not easy, but by trying different types of activities, from modeling and drawing to knitting, you can find something that your baby likes. Gradually increasing the time of the lesson, you will help develop perseverance. Be sure to start such forms of work with a small amount of time, gradually increasing it. It is necessary to conduct physical exercises at intervals to give the child a discharge.
In the kindergarten and school, in another unfamiliar setting, the difficulties that hyperactive children will encounter are inevitable. What to do to help the child caregivers and teachers, they need to know. Using pedagogical tricks, small tricks, you can help him cope with the discomfort arising from the inability to concentrate. Giving small tasks, it is necessary to generously reward children for successful completion, encouraging even the smallest efforts. During classes, ask to bring chalk or wash a rag, so that this helps to defuse the nervous system. The main thing is to find personal contact, because
children's love and affection have tremendous power, capable of re-educating even a bully. Such an attitude will save the child from the need to be aggressive in order to protect himself.
The application of all of the above methods will bear fruit only with time, with a systematic approach. Moreover, the sooner you start the fight, the more successful the result will be. Hyperactivity in infants can even be noticed. They sleep little, shout a lot, constantly on the move, although they still cannot walk and crawl. Turning to specialists will help you create a monitoring program for your child and identify problems at an early stage. It is also important to immediately identify the correct line of education so that we ourselves do not turn a normal child into a hyperactive one.
Children are given to parents to bring up new people, the best. With hyperactive children, this truth increases tenfold!