Birthday is a special holiday for every person. On this day, congratulations and various wishes pour on him from all sides, all give gifts and pay attention to the birthday man. No matter how old the age is, a person expects to feel his importance, value and significance on this day. And if no one wishes a happy birthday?
Sad holiday
It does not always happen the way you plan and want. In one song, "Birthday is a sad holiday." Sometimes, unfortunately, this is so. When no one wishes a happy birthday, does not remember you on this holiday, it becomes very sad and lonely.
Situations are different: disagreements with family and friends that caused them to be ignored, absence in the city when traveling abroad, or the most commonplace situation when the birthday person does not send invitations in the hope that friends "should remember an important date without reminders and come without invitations, "but a friend forgot about his birthday ...
As a result, the hero of the occasion is sitting at an empty table with a feeling of loneliness, a bad mood and a mournful expression on his face. Sadly, when no one came to his birthday, did not congratulate, did not send a postcard or a warm message. Remember the sad donkey Eeyore from the cartoon about Winnie the Pooh. He was very upset that none of his friends remembered his birthday. Sadness was in no hurry to leave the donkey, even at that moment when the inhabitants of the edge came to him with gifts and wishes. So strong is the feeling of loneliness when no one wishes a happy birthday.
But this is no reason to hang up your nose and be upset. Everyone has this holiday only once a year. So this event should be noted in a special way, even if almost no one congratulated on his birthday.
To not know loneliness
So that lonely holidays do not become familiar in your home, you must adhere to the following tips:
- Do not forget about the important events of relatives and friends. Be sure to pay at least a drop of attention to a person that day: to please with a congratulatory rhyme, to send a present.
- "Reconcile those who are in a quarrel." If a person has a absurd and quick-tempered character, it is not surprising that there are no sincere and devoted friends in his environment. Being in hostile relations with relatives and close people, a person dooms himself to a lonely joyless existence.
- Invite guests in advance to a birthday party. Discuss the date and time. Some people are embarrassed to come to their closest friends even without a birthday invitation. Do not be too lazy to ring up the invitees on the eve and say what time they will come and how much you will be glad for their presence.
How to have a fun holiday alone
If no one wishes you a happy birthday for various reasons, do not be discouraged. Draw the appropriate conclusions for yourself so that this does not happen anymore, and spend this day for your pleasure.
You can please yourself in a variety of ways, for example:
- to go on an interesting trip;
- Go to the theater or cinema for a great premiere;
- attend a concert of your favorite artist;
- arrange an unforgettable shopping experience.
If almost no one wishes a happy birthday, and the mood inexorably begins to decline, spend a fun evening alone with yourself. The festive evening program may include such items:
- Play your favorite music loud enough. Feel free to sing along if you wish. Today is your day.
- Have an excellent gala dinner consisting of your favorite treats. Buy a small cake, light candles, make a wish. Stock up on ice cream, fruit, chocolate, treat yourself to delicious wine.
- Browse your favorite photos to music, admire yourself, wish yourself the fulfillment of your cherished desires.
- Turn on the festive garland, light candles and, looking in the mirror, start dancing to groovy music or languid motifs. You will feel how gradually the mood begins to rise and you experience the pleasure of such an extraordinary birthday.
- Inflate balls from 3 to 5 pieces. Write on each your dreams and wishes. Go out onto the street or onto the balcony and release them into the sky with fun. Now your desires will come true without fail.
Warm words for loved ones
Even if no one wishes a happy birthday, pay attention to your near and dear ones yourself. Release grievances and grievances and write a message to everyone, for which you value the presence of a person in your life, for which you are grateful to him. Discard sad and evil emotions, write sincerely with a light heart, because these people are really dear to you, even if they forgot about their birthday.
Send messages in an envelope or personal message. Most likely, the next day you will be filled up with loving and warm congratulations.