Love ... Tenderness ... Weasel ... Care ... How many more words can be written with which our mother is associated. Remember how in early childhood you reassured us when we saw a homeless kitten on the street, and how we treated us during our illness, brought fruits, she didn’t sleep at night, so that if we wake up and ask for a drink, she could immediately bring . And remember, when you wanted something like that, suddenly a chocolate bar appeared from somewhere. And how much “want” and “give” was done?
And then the transitional age came , and suddenly it began to seem that my mother did not understand, for some reason she was worried and set the time when she needed to be at home in the evening. Why is she not letting walks like other girls and boys? Why thinks something could happen? And now, almost all of us already have our own children, and we understand what it is like to not know where and with whom your baby will be, when he returns, will he not get into any trouble? It now has mobile phones, but what happened then? “Mom, I’ll come, don’t worry!” - and think what you want.
What does it mean to be a good daughter for your own and only mom? How to make her proud of her daughter and be sure that she raised a good person?
Everyone is responsible for actions, not in a word, but in deed, it is necessary to prove what it means to be a good daughter. Call on time, and not then, when you need advice or borrow money. Each person has his own criteria for becoming a good daughter. Someone calls several times a day to remind about the medicine, someone just needs a couple of times a week. Someone goes to mom after working with products, and someone wonders and bring potatoes once a week. Someone with a clear conscience moves to another country and is not entirely interested, but what about mom, and someone would never think to go where there will not be a mom. Everyone has their own vision of what it means to be a good daughter. Everything is so relative and individual that it is impossible to draw any boundaries. However, everyone understands that there are norms that absolutely all children must adhere to - this is help, both financial and moral, to their parents, care and affection, lively interest and participation in their lives. In other words, everything that your parents gave you when you were little.
Respect for your parents is the main condition. And at twenty and at forty, you need to remember that before you is a mother - a woman, thanks to whom you were born, who gave you all of yourself, taught, cared for and protected as much as you could, and sometimes even more. It was she who carried you in her tummy, it was she who smeared the broken knees with green, and it was she who helped to find a way out and hopeless situations, it seemed. And now, over the years, the worst thing for mothers and fathers is disrespect for them and oblivion.
Delight your parents with cute little things and trinkets, make pleasant surprises. Invite for walks, take an interest in their life. Sometimes a person needs so little for happiness ...
How to be a good daughter is to solve the problems of your parents and not only when they are old, but much earlier.
Never be selfish in relation to parents, remember that you owe them a lot. It’s hard to see how, in old age, how parents are given to a nursing home to make their life easier. Everything, they say, outlived its own, became unnecessary ... But how disgusting to hear from the wall the scream of a neighbor who yells at her mother bedridden the latest curses and terrible wishes? Did the woman who 40 years ago braided the pink-and-white daughter of a pigtail and prayed for her fate know that such a fate awaits her?
What it means to be a good daughter, everyone is prompted by the heart and that love and affection for the mother who warms from the inside. Be merciful, sympathetic and thankful to mothers for their hard work, and then your children will be happy.
It's so great when you have a mom!