Thinking about whether to wish your ex-wife a happy birthday? If you have remained in a good relationship with a person after a divorce, then there is nothing reprehensible in the fact that you call or come to visit a woman who used to mean a lot to you. True friendship is not a hindrance. How can I congratulate my ex on a holiday? Look for tips below.
Personally
The most logical and natural option for those who communicate well with their ex-wife after a divorce is to congratulate her personally. If a man and a woman are friends of families, then you can come to congratulate the lady with her current lover. This may seem strange to someone. But adults usually realize that love has passed, and life moves on. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the fact that you have another life partner. But to congratulate the lady with whom you lived more than one year together, you need. Such a congratulation becomes mandatory if people have children in common.
What to give for ex-wife’s birthday? It is advisable to give the thing that the woman wants to receive. It is not a shame at all to ask before the holiday what the lady would like to receive as a gift. If you know about the preferences of women, then be guided by this information. You can give anything: household appliances, dishes, jewelry or various certificates.
Be sure to prepare a congratulatory speech on the birthday of the ex-wife. Cool greetings should not be obscene or derogatory. If you know that the lady does not have a sense of humor, then it’s better just to congratulate the woman with two or three sentences composed along the way to the birthday girl. If you believe that a woman will appreciate the joke, then say a funny congratulation. For instance:
I wish you immodest profit,
The Swiss bank account is huge
Outside the city is a large summer house,
Strong health in addition,
Great victories in cupid affairs,
Canary and the Cote d'Azur,
Successes in all kinds of life,
And most importantly - reliable friends!
By phone
You were not invited to a birthday, but would you like to congratulate a person? How to wish ex-wife a happy birthday? You can call her on the phone. There is nothing reprehensible in such an act. A man who is on good terms with a former lover can be friends with her. Do not be afraid that a lady will perceive such a call as a desire to turn back the clock. Clever women do not step on the same rake twice.
What to say to the ex-wife? Wish the lady happiness, sincere and mutual love and remind how wonderful she is. Girls like to hear compliments about their appearance. So do not be afraid to mention how a woman has recently become prettier and flourished. You can say that you are proud of the success of the lady and believe that she will achieve everything she wants.
In social networks
You didn’t have your ex-wife’s phone number, or did she change the number and notify you of this? Then happy birthday to your ex-wife can be written through one of the social networks. In this case, remember that brevity is the sister of talent. If you write a long letter, a woman might think that you want her back. If you write a few sincere sentences wishing you happiness and health, the lady will not be able to think anything bad. An example of such a congratulation: "Dear Julia, I congratulate you on your anniversary! May your life be happy. Remain as beautiful, positive and cheerful."
Is it worth writing or is it better to just mentally wish a person a happy birthday? It is not good to forget people who have done a lot for you in the past. Out of simple respect, it’s worth congratulating a woman.
Send a gift through friends
Not sure how to wish your ex-wife a happy birthday? If you are talking with a woman, then congratulate her on the phone. Your personal presence at the celebration, if the lady did not invite you there, will be inappropriate. Have you prepared a present? You can send your present through one of your friends. For many years of cohabitation with a woman, you might have many common acquaintances, many of whom still go to your ex's birthday. It is certainly not difficult for such personalities to convey a present to a girl. In this case, you need to attach a small postcard to your gift. Even if you called a woman and congratulated her on the phone, it’s worth writing a postcard anyway. In a wish it is better to write prose, not poetry. The insincerity of the lines written off from the Internet annoys many young ladies. Therefore, do not try to hit a lady if you do not have the talent of a poet.
Flowers by courier
You have no idea how to wish your ex-wife a happy birthday? Remember that is a universal gift for a woman. Flowers - this is an ideal presentation if nothing else occurs to you. This format of congratulations will appeal to any woman. You can show at the same time that you remember about her holiday, and also that you remember what kind of lady loves flowers. To beautifully congratulate the ex-wife on her birthday, you need to know in advance when the lady wakes up and when she leaves the house. This must be done so as not to wake up the birthday girl early and not to call the courier at a time when the ex-wife leaves home.
Warn a woman about the surprise that you are preparing for her, is not worth it. The lady will be pleasantly surprised to receive a beautiful bouquet in the morning. You can attach a box of chocolates or a chocolate bar to such a present. But if this item can be omitted, then attaching a postcard to the bouquet is simply necessary. The lady must understand from whom she received the flowers.
Call or not after such a gift, decide for yourself. In most cases, women call themselves and thank the man for a wonderful gift.
Surprise
Want to surprise your ex-wife? Happy birthday you can congratulate a woman in many ways. One of them is to present the lady with a certificate or a subscription. If you communicate well with a girl, then you have all the information regarding what a lady is fond of and what she would like to do in her free time. For example, if she always wanted to shoot from a crossbow, present her with a birthday subscription for a similar service. How to present a similar card? You can hand it in person, pass it by courier or through friends. Another original way is to put your gift in your inbox. You can send a subscription to the birthday girl’s email.
The task of congratulation-surprise is to surprise the girl and give her something that she does not expect to receive from you at all. But you need to act within the reasonable. A lady should like a gift, not disappoint her. Therefore, think in advance about what effect your present will have on the former lady of the heart.