A wedding is a very important, significant event that will require the solution of many issues. Whatever the scale of the celebration - large-scale or very simple - organizing a wedding on your own always remains a rather complicated process, it requires a special approach and attention.
Previously, according to tradition, the wedding was played by the bride's parents. This is due to the fact that the bride’s parents provided the girl with a dowry, and the husband took a young wife for life support. Today, the organization of a wedding celebration either falls on the shoulders of both families, or one that is more affluent.
First of all, the question arises where to arrange a wedding. If there are few guests, and the holiday will be held at home, as a rule, it is held by the bride. In this case, the main issues are: the level of the holiday and the share of costs for both families.
It is important to clearly determine in advance how many guests will be at the holiday and who exactly should be invited. The wedding budget and its scale depend on the answer to these questions. It is best if the number of guests from the bride and groom will be the same. This will avoid any grievances.
Organizing a wedding on your own will require a lot of time and effort, since the success of the entire holiday depends on good planning.
As a rule, after the solemn part in the registry office, the newlyweds, along with witnesses and closest friends, go for a walk around the city. They take pictures, lay flowers at memorials. In turn, parents go home or to a restaurant and prepare there for the arrival of guests and newlyweds. The time of arrival of the newlyweds is always strictly agreed.
When everything is already assembled, a feast begins with games, congratulations and gifts. Of course, parents meet young people at the entrance with bread and salt, and only then everyone is placed at the tables. If you don’t know exactly how to conduct a wedding, you can find a ready-made script, but it’s best to call for a host who will not only be able to amuse the guests, but also spend the holiday in compliance with all traditions. Also, the host can be a person from friends or close guests who is able to have a great holiday. It is very important that the host of the wedding be smart, cheerful and energetic. In addition, the organization of the wedding independently covers such an important aspect as the location of the guests at the tables. There are so many options for accommodating guests. They can be planted by families, divided by age, by interests or put everyone at the same table. The main thing is to have familiar people nearby and no one to be bored.
According to wedding traditions, the father of the bride should be the first to raise a glass and say a toast. After this, guests can take turns going to the newlyweds and handing them flowers, gifts, saying congratulations.
The newlyweds can leave the holiday without saying goodbye, but recently there has been a tendency when the newlyweds stay with guests until the very end. Sometimes young people go straight on holiday on their honeymoon.
It is important to note that no wedding can do without a photographer and videographer. You should not count on friends with simple "soap boxes" or "mirrors" on such a day. It is best to start looking for a good professional photographer in advance, so that there is something to show your children. Remember that with good photographers, the schedule is scheduled a month in advance.
Now you understand that organizing a wedding on your own is a rather complicated, but quite feasible task. In the article we covered only a few of the most important points, and with all aspects of this process you can get acquainted personally when the wedding is around the corner.