The problem of fathers and children worries the soul of every loving family. Parents ask a dumb question: "Children, how to educate you in the right way?". Everyone wants their first-born to become the standard not only of beauty, but also of mind. It used to be common to follow the advice of a wise grandmother, but the world does not stand still, and many young mothers are looking for modern answers to this eternal question. An abundance of resources for the correct upbringing of the child has overflowed all the shelves of bookstores, but the question still remains open: "How do you need to raise children and what should they be taught from childhood?" We will work on this issue today.
The child lives by imitation, and first of all, you need to start with yourself. Look at yourself from the outside and honestly answer the following questions: "And what example am I for my child myself? What good can I teach him by my example?". This will clarify the situation and let you know what else to work on. Ponder how your children would like to see you, how to educate in them only good character traits. Be a good role model for them ! The results are not long in coming.
The main point of effective child rearing is the presence of a united, happy and full-fledged family. All that is required of you is to save not only your union with your spouse, but also to constantly nourish your marriage with love, mutual understanding, trust and, of course, respect for each other. Together you will create a warm atmosphere for your child’s home, an ideal family, mutual support, and will fill the house with an aura of love and peace of mind. Proper parenting is the key to a successful future for your baby. Any child wants to see their parents happy and loving. I want to return to such a house again and again. The effect of unity will help your child build his
ideal family, because you and his parents will become an example for him.
Never put pressure on the child or go too far. It is very important that he feels his own significance and fulfillment. The opinion of the child must be respected, even if he is six and "he still does not know anything about life." You are his main adviser, you are his support, you are his most dear and loving person. And it is from you that he expects praise. Give him the opportunity to feel like an adult, and you will never have problems with the transitional age of the child. All they want is to establish themselves and do everything in an adult way. Raising a son is a difficult task. But when you recognize him as an adult, he simply will not have to go against you, proving his right to live an adult life.
Children, children. How to educate you? Another tip - give praise and praise again. Just do not go too far, because praise must be deserved and honest. It is necessary to make sure that a person wants to do something with pleasure on a subconscious level. This will require the power of a kind word. If you praised your baby, then you made it even a little more fun, more joyful, kinder and more grateful. For the sake of praise, everyone is ready for good deeds. Agree, if you are praised at work, your wings grow and you want to do something at times better and better the next time. This is due to the fact that you were noticed, your work was appreciated properly. Accordingly, you are recognized.
Remember that your treasure is your children. How to educate them is not a problem. The main thing is to follow your maternal instincts, and they will prompt the right decisions. Good luck to you, dear mothers!