What are the chances that a pregnancy at 35 years old will be favorable for the baby and his mother? As practice shows, in our time an increasing number of women are in no hurry to have children, putting it off for thirty years or later, up to 35 and even 40 years. At the same time, one should be aware of certain positive and negative points of this decision.
Physiology features
It is sad, but many women, upon reaching the age of 35, manage to acquire some diseases that are already proceeding in a chronic form. In this regard, it is preliminarily necessary before consultation to obtain a consultation with a doctor and undergo all necessary examinations, including passing tests. At the same time, it is worth visiting specialists of a narrow profile.
The body of a twenty-year-old girl is more resistant to the manifestation of the influence of negative factors (both external and internal). As for women of thirty-five, they are at much greater risk. This is largely due to the fact that muscle tone is not the same as before. In addition, dysfunction of the musculoskeletal system is often observed. And because of this, in turn, complications may arise during pregnancy or during delivery.
At least, the anatomy of the female genital organs does not undergo any significant changes up to 40 years. And all thanks to the level of estrogen, which until this age remains unchanged. Therefore, the environment of the vagina and perineal skin will be supported by biologically active substances within normal limits.
At the same time, when taking contraceptives, some women have dryness, a burning sensation and, in addition, the amount of lubrication in the vagina is reduced.
But if you approach pregnancy planning with all responsibility, then all possible problems can be minimized, or even completely avoided. In particular, we are talking about observing the correct diet, performing a number of physical exercises.
In addition, it is worth noting that modern medicine is also not the same as before - now it is possible to identify early pathological conditions in the fetus or mother. This, in turn, allows timely taking the necessary decisions in order to avoid dangerous situations.
Face change
If with the anatomy of the female genital organs everything is a little clear, then with the face everything is not so rosy. According to average statistics, in the female half of humanity, it begins to age from 25 years. In some, this process begins earlier, in others, age-related changes affect much later. This is largely due to a genetic predisposition. It is worth paying attention to your parents. In addition, the influence of lifestyle and psychological attitude should be taken into account.
Signs of facial skin aging at age 25 have not yet been detected, but it can be affected by dehydration. This is manifested by the lack of a healthy and natural blush that is characteristic of young girls. In addition, the following symptoms are observed:
- Lip aging - they become wrinkled, thin and decrease in volume.
- Since 30 years, the process has been developing more rapidly. If previously wrinkles were barely noticeable with expression activity, now they are clearly distinguishable. They are especially clearly visible in the forehead and nasolabial folds (again, depending on the type of face).
- The surface of the skin around the eyes becomes thin and loses its elastic qualities.
- The renewal of skin cells is significantly slowed down, and therefore the accumulation of dead epidermal tissues begins, which gives the skin a grayish tint. And since this process is uneven, the complexion is also uneven.
According to reviews of late pregnancy, after 40 years in women, in addition to facial wrinkles, age bends appear in the chin and corners of the mouth. A fold is formed in the cervical-chin part of the face.
World statistics
Those women who want to get pregnant at 35 or older should consider what statistics show. And it may not be very comforting:
- The probability of miscarriage in women after 30 years is about 18% versus 7% in younger mothers.
- There is a risk that the baby will be born with Down syndrome: up to 30 years, this probability is 1 chance for 1300 cases of pregnancy. After 30 a little more often - 1 to 910, after 35 years - 1 in 380.
- The probability of artificial birth is 35%.
- The risk of developing diabetes in expectant mothers is 32%.
At the same time, it should be understood that a favorable prognosis will be in the event that the health of a woman at 35 years old does not cause concern, and the body itself is in good physical shape. In addition, the expectant mother does not have chronic diseases.
In this case, the risk of any complications during pregnancy is minimal. And at the same time, a high degree of probability remains that the child will be born completely healthy and strong.
Negative sides
You can immediately reassure many women, because pregnancy in adulthood has not only negative aspects, there are a number of significant advantages. But let's start with the obvious drawbacks. It is worth noting that the attitude of modern medicine to such a pregnancy is wary.
Many experts are inclined to believe that having a child of 35 years or more is risky due to the development of many serious complications. Moreover, regarding not only the mother, but also her child. But how bad is it in reality?
The difficulty of conception
How does fertilization and conception occur? The first difficulty that every woman faces when she wants to have a child after 35 is a lengthy planning period. The thing is that to conceive a baby the first time will not work. And the reason here is quite understandable: due to the fact that over the years in the female body the number of ovulations decreases. In this regard, getting into the right period of time is becoming more and more difficult.
To calculate the anovulatory cycle, you can use the help of ultrasound or home tests for ovulation. Nevertheless, it should be borne in mind that the output of an egg from the ovary into the fallopian tube may shift relative to time. That is, it can happen either too late or too early. For this reason, for some period a woman needs to closely monitor the state of her body.
Chronic diseases
Currently, there are quite rare cases where a woman can boast of excellent health by the age of forty. Usually, by this period of time, you can manage to “grab” almost a whole bunch of a wide variety of diseases. At the same time, it is not at all necessary that they are associated specifically with gynecology or pelvic organs.
There is no longer a question of how fertilization and conception of a child occur. As an example, diseases of the kidneys, liver, pancreas can have a harmful effect on the process of bearing a child, including subsequent delivery.
Natural processes of body wear
Perhaps this is the most persistent and basic argument that every woman after 35 or 40 years of planning a pregnancy should pay attention to. And the point here is that a woman at this age will expect many changes. And this is not only about changes in appearance, which has already been discussed earlier (about the face).
The age process affects the whole body completely. In simple words (but for some they may seem rude) - aging occurs naturally. Accordingly, this process cannot but affect the egg.
Ultimately, this can lead to a genetic malfunction, which manifests itself in Down's disease in the child. Fortunately, as statistics show (we have already reviewed it), in the case of the first pregnancy at the age of 35, this happens extremely rarely.
In addition, every self-respecting woman tries not to allow herself to grow old even after 35 years. And in the literal sense - ladies are already paying increased attention to their body and figure. Not forgetting about their own health, possibly prolonging youth.
Several advantages
After familiarizing yourself with the reverse side of the coin, it is worth considering what good can be expected from pregnancy at such a late age. And no matter how much the doctors scare the woman about the high probability of certain consequences, the chance that she will be at risk is not so great.
In other words, the age of a woman is not a hindrance to conceive, bear and give birth to a healthy child. In addition, pregnancy at such a late age has several significant advantages. But they just should not be overlooked.
Body rejuvenation and a conscious approach in 35 years
As you know, biologically active substances with the body of a pregnant woman are capable of creating real miracles. This is especially true of the hormone estrogen, which has the ability to rejuvenate cells, smooth wrinkles and give a feeling of happiness, and in this state, any woman simply shines.
Moreover, by these years, most women are becoming wiser. In this regard, they approach different situations more responsibly. Problem solving is carried out meaningfully, especially when it comes to a second pregnancy at 35 years old. Children from such mothers practically do not suffer from a lack of attention, education, or in terms of knowledge and useful skills.
Any adult and loving mother tries to fully devote herself to her child, endowing him with care, attention and ensuring comprehensive development. In addition, women are fully aware of the responsibility that comes with pregnancy. From the point of view of the psychological aspect, they are completely ready for the birth and upbringing of a new life.
Natural postponement of menopause
Successful conception in women at 35 years old contributes to the fact that the onset of menopause is naturally delayed for a certain period of time. For mother herself, this, in turn, indicates that it is possible to extend her youth by a few more years. In addition, later menopause will be much easier. There are no exacerbations, and all its signs seem to be smoothed out.
Financial stability
As we know, the ideal age for pregnancy is from 20 to 30 years. But despite this, some ladies still put off the joy of motherhood at a later date. In most cases, mature women are already sufficiently wealthy and have good and steady income. In this regard, their financial situation does not cause concern. This once again suggests that a woman can afford the management of pregnancy and delivery in a private clinic.
And again, it all comes down to material well-being. After all, parents have opportunities, and considerable, so that the child receives all the necessities. You can choose expensive training, and rare and useful hobbies will be available to him. In addition, the child will receive a balanced diet, and there will also be an opportunity for a good family vacation somewhere outside of his native country.
Vivid examples
With age-related changes in the face of women after 30 years, we now all understand. But even this does not stop many ladies. A number of striking examples should be given when women (and very well-known to the world) had children after 35, or even 40 years.
These celebrities include:
- Singer Madonna. For the first time, she felt the joy of motherhood at the age of 38. She gave birth to a second baby two years later.
- Another beauty, Julia Roberts, became the mother of twins when she was 37 years old.
- Another famous actress - Kim Besinger - became a mother at the age of forty.
- Gina Davis overcame the mark at 48 years old, and only then were the twins born.
- Models are not far behind actresses: Cindy Crawford and Claudia Schiffer became mothers at 35 and 36 years old, respectively.
The reasons that many women began to postpone motherhood for later are not so few. It is important for someone to achieve high professional success. Others think primarily about material well-being. Still others abandon pregnancy at 35 to live for themselves.
However, no matter how significant and significant the reason, to stop the course of the biological clock is beyond the power of any of the living people! Sooner or later, but every woman will be confronted with the fact - to give birth now or never. This is a purely physiological problem, and there’s no getting away from it.
Recently, it has become noticeable that the life expectancy of the female half of humanity has increased. And this is largely due to modern medicine and some improvements in the quality of life. However, this does not cancel the menopause process in any way - as it was with many women at the age of 50, it will continue. After all, this is also pure physiology. Moreover, even before the onset of menopause, a long-term phase of infertility is often noted.
In conclusion
Finally, it is worth citing the three most useful basic recommendations of specialists - diet, healthy and sound sleep, sports. In any case, stressful situations should be avoided.
In addition, the following will be useful:
- Women who are pregnant at 35 should be under the constant supervision of a physician. Therefore, it is necessary to refrain from traveling abroad.
- Before the conception procedure, it is necessary to undergo a routine examination by a gynecologist. Including examination of the mammary glands, ultrasound of the pelvic organs. Also, you can not do without taking smears on the flora, oncocytology and analyzes of TORCH infections. If necessary, then for the presence of STDs.
- If this becomes necessary, then vaccinate against rubella, measles, hepatitis, mumps and chickenpox. Otherwise, conception should be postponed for another 3 months.
- Taking any medications without a doctor’s prescription (or consultation with him) is strictly prohibited. Folic acid is an exception - it is usually taken 3 months before conception and the first trimester of 400 mcg per day.
- Do not ignore all diagnostic measures, including the delivery of all necessary tests.
- In some cases, expectant mothers are recommended to conduct a chorionic biopsy. During the procedure, a small piece of placental tissue is taken with a special ultraprecise needle. When they are studied by a geneticist, he will be able to give an opinion on the state of health of the unborn child.
- During pregnancy, no cigarettes, alcohol, and even more so narcotic substances.
- Women in the situation should attend special courses for expectant mothers, which are present in every city. Moreover, you can visit them not only on your own, but also with your husband.
Adhering to these simple rules, a pregnancy of 35 years will proceed without many serious complications. In addition, there is a whole range of sports for pregnant women (yoga, swimming and water aerobics).
Their benefit is that you can protect yourself from puffiness, back pain, and also prepare your body and body for the upcoming birth. In addition, the elasticity of the genital organs increases, so that you can easily restore shape after pregnancy.